Questions
What is adoption?
What types of adoption are available?
What are the qualifications to adopt?
What is a homestudy?
How much does it cost to adopt?
Is financial assistance available for individuals adopting?
Who are the children in foster care?
What is the difference between a public agency and a private agency?
Are there any age restrictions to adopt?
I am in the military. Can I adopt a child?
I am single. Can I adopt a child?
I am gay/lesbian. Can I adopt a child?
How do I begin the adoption process?
Can the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption match me with a child?
Where do I begin searching for waiting children?
How long does the adoption process take?
How do I adopt my step-children?
Answers
What is adoption?
Adoption is a permanent, legal transfer of all parental rights from one person or couple to another person or couple. Adoptive parents have the same rights and responsibilities as parents whose children were born to them.
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What types of adoption are available?
The main types of adoption are: adopt a child from the U.S. foster care system; adopt an infant in the United States; adopt a child from another country; or adopt a step-child(ren).
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What are the qualifications to adopt?
Many parents wonder if they have to be the same race or have the same ethnic background as the child they adopt. Or they may wonder if they have to have a certain income level.
If you adopt from foster care, the answer is no to all of these. Families are as diverse as the children who are available for adoption. If you adopt internationally or privately with an attorney or agency, parents are typically under 40, married for at least three years and financially stable.
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What is a homestudy?
A homestudy is an in-depth application and interview process with a social worker that involves in-person interviews, reference checks, background checks, and home visits. The study is not standardized and may vary from state to state and agency to agency. The general regulations of the state of residence must be followed. The average home study usually takes three to six months to complete.
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How much does it cost to adopt?
The total cost of adoption varies depending upon a number of factors such as the type of adoption, the agency through which you work, the state in which you reside, attorney fees and whether travel is required.
Range of Adoption Costs
Foster Care Adoptions $0 - $2,500
Licensed Private Agency Adoptions $5,000 - $40,000+
Independent Adoptions $8,000 - $40,000+
Intercountry Adoptions $7,000 - $30,000
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Is financial assistance available for individuals adopting?
Loans and Grants: Loans or grants are available through a variety of organizations such as adoption agencies, foundations and banks.
Subsidies and Reimbursement: Each State has its own definition of children with special needs, but they often include children who are older, have disabilities, belong to a minority group, or must be placed with siblings. To facilitate the adoption of these children, who often are in foster care, States may provide reimbursements for some adoption costs, as well as subsidies for ongoing care for some children.
The North American Council on Adoptable Children’s Adoption Subsidy Resource Center provides general information on the subsidy program for each state or province.
Adoption Tax Credit: You may be able to take a tax credit for qualifying expenses paid to adopt an eligible child, including a child with special needs. The adoption credit is an amount subtracted from your tax liability. Learn more through the IRS website, http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc607.html.
Employer benefits: A number of companies and government agencies (local, county and state levels) offer adoption benefits as part of their benefits package. The benefits may be full or partial reimbursement for qualified adoption expenses and/or paid or unpaid time off during and after the adoption. You may wish to contact your Human Resources department to inquire about the availability of adoption benefits.
The Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption provides an Adoption-Friendly Workplace guide with valuable information that adoptive parents can share with their employer. For more information, visit the Adoption-Friendly Workplace webpage or call (877) 777-4222.
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Who are the children in foster care?
Many children are in foster care because they were removed from their families due to abuse, neglect or abandonment. The children might live temporarily with extended family, a foster family or in a group home while social workers try to help the birth family. If the birth family's problems cannot be resolved, the agency that has custody of the child goes to court to legally terminate parental rights. At this point, social workers try to find a safe and loving adoptive family for the child. Ages range from infant to teenager, although the average age is nine. Virtually every race, ethnic group, and socio-economic category is represented. Some children are waiting alone and others are waiting with siblings.
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What is the difference between a public agency and a private agency?
A public agency is the local branch of your state or county social service department that focuses on adoption of children within its custody.
A private agency is state-licensed and may be for-profit or nonprofit and may or may not have a religious affiliation. Private agencies may specialize in domestic infant adoption, foster care adoption or international adoption.
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Are there any age restrictions to adopt?
Age restrictions for adoptive parents vary from state to state and with each agency and are sometimes based on the age of the child. Contact the local state agency to find out the guidelines in your state.
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I am in the military. Can I adopt a child?
The military provides active-duty personnel a reimbursement for most one-time adoption costs up to $2,000 per child. The maximum amount available in a given year is $5,000, even if both parents are in the military. Reimbursement is made after the adoption is finalized. The National Military Family Association provides further information and resources.
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I am single. Can I adopt a child?
Most states allow single parent adoption. Contact the local state agency to find out the guidelines in your state.
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I am gay/lesbian. Can I adopt a child?
Most states allow gay/lesbian parent adoption. Several states allow gay/lesbian couples to adopt jointly. Contact the local state agency to find out the guidelines in your state.
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How do I begin the adoption process?
Order the Foundation’s signature publication A Child is Waiting, A Beginner’s Guide to Adoption to learn about the adoption process and get local agency information to help you get started.
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Can the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption match me with a child?
No, the Foundation is a 501(c)3 non-profit public charity and not an agency certified to have custody of or match families with children. The Foundation's mission is to dramatically increase the adoptions of the more than 150,000 children in North America’s foster care systems waiting to be adopted. The Foundation leads signature national service programs, such as Wendy's Wonderful Kids and Adoption-Friendly Workplace, and works to streamline the adoption process and make adoption more affordable for families. As the only foundation dedicated exclusively to foster care adoption, it is our vision that every child will have a loving family and a permanent home.
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Where do I begin searching for waiting children?
Many states provide photolistings of waiting children on their website. You may also visit the following web sites which feature photolistings of waiting children in several states / provinces:
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How long does the adoption process take?
There are many variables that determine how long it will take to complete the adoption process such as whether or not pre-adoptive classes are required, the length of time to complete the homestudy and the length of time to identify a child for your family. On average, the adoption process may take one to two years.
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How do I adopt my step-children?
It is advised that you consult with an adoption attorney or contact the court in your county that handles adoption to learn about the requirements and the process. You may wish to refer to the Stepparent Adoption Factsheet for Families on the Child Welfare Information Gateway website.
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